Growing Together: The Case for Young Love
I am convinced that the younger you form a bond with someone, the better your chances of having true love for the long haul.
Epistolitary
The Dichotomy of Being Content, But Not Complete.
I've learned that being alone doesn't make you incomplete, but that doesn't make the feeling of incompleteness any less real.
Breaking Up The INTJ Way
As 2017 ends, I once again find my inbox sprinkled with messages relating to a breakup with an INTJ. The irony is that I don’t think I have received a single one of these messages from INTJs themselves, only the blind-sided partner that has come to realize that their
Hiring and Employing an INTJ
I know many companies look to the MBTI in the hiring and interviewing process, and I find that to be valuable, as it provides key personality insights to your potential employee and assures that the employee will fit into the culture of the company. In my opinion, this method is
The Necessity To Simplify Life
Typically once or twice a year, I come to the realization that I have taken on too much, acquired an excessive amount of “things”, experience a bit of disorganization and find that my psyche goes on overdrive. As an INTJ, I want to do everything; I have a ridiculous amount
The Hardest Thing About Being an INTJ Woman
In all my years, I have struggled with a variety of things simply due to my personality type. When I didn’t know about the personality type, it was even more difficult. Regardless of all of my knowledge, life experience, lessons, mistakes and triumphs, there has been one consistent factor
Reasons I Don’t Like Being an INTJ
There are many reasons why I am quite fond of being an INTJ however, it is not entirely rainbows. With great power comes great weakness, and there are several things I don’t particularly enjoy about being an INTJ. It is not to say that I would trade it, as
How To Communicate Bad News To An INTJ
A reader brought up an interesting question, and being that it is a frequent struggle, it has inspired a post. The question that was brought to me was how, as an INTJ woman, how do we want to be heard. The struggle of which I speak, is the disbelief in
How An INTJ Deals With Conflict
I wouldn’t mind conflict so much if most people were not so damn irrational. Because of that fact alone, I absolutely despise conflict and nearly everything that surrounds it. Luckily, thanks to my naturally calm demeanor, it is an extremely rare occurrence in my life.
In my personal experience,
The Reason You Won’t Get Along With an INTJ
An INTJ will typically have a very small, carefully selected social circle. This isn’t necessarily by choice, but more based on the fact that other humans don’t like us. It is not because we are bad people, that we are cold, unfriendly, or anti-social; It is primarily due