The INTJ Female Archive

As 2017 ends, I once again find my inbox sprinkled with messages relating to a breakup with an INTJ. The irony is that I don’t think I have received a single one of these messages from INTJs themselves, only the blind-sided partner that has come to realize that their

I know many companies look to the MBTI in the hiring and interviewing process, and I find that to be valuable, as it provides key personality insights to your potential employee and assures that the employee will fit into the culture of the company. In my opinion, this method is

Typically once or twice a year, I come to the realization that I have taken on too much, acquired an excessive amount of “things”, experience a bit of disorganization and find that my psyche goes on overdrive. As an INTJ, I want to do everything; I have a ridiculous amount

In all my years, I have struggled with a variety of things simply due to my personality type. When I didn’t know about the personality type, it was even more difficult. Regardless of all of my knowledge, life experience, lessons, mistakes and triumphs, there has been one consistent factor

There are many reasons why I am quite fond of being an INTJ however, it is not entirely rainbows. With great power comes great weakness, and there are several things I don’t particularly enjoy about being an INTJ. It is not to say that I would trade it, as

A reader brought up an interesting question, and being that it is a frequent struggle, it has inspired a post. The question that was brought to me was how, as an INTJ woman, how do we want to be heard. The struggle of which I speak, is the disbelief in

I wouldn’t mind conflict so much if most people were not so damn irrational. Because of that fact alone, I absolutely despise conflict and nearly everything that surrounds it. Luckily, thanks to my naturally calm demeanor, it is an extremely rare occurrence in my life. In my personal experience,

An INTJ will typically have a very small, carefully selected social circle. This isn’t necessarily by choice, but more based on the fact that other humans don’t like us. It is not because we are bad people, that we are cold, unfriendly, or anti-social; It is primarily due